Friday, June 3, 2011

Back from the East

We're back from our 2 week-long visit to New York State. Before I go into the trip I wanted to let everyone know that Kenneth is feeling great. His hair is even coming back, including his eyebrows and eyelashes. I'll have to post a picture of him on of these days. He will have the PET scan soon and I'll let everyone know the results when we get them.
Also, we did NOT get the house we put the offer on. Just as well. It really would have consumed our lives for the next couple of years. Maybe we will just stay put. We'll see!

Okay, back to the travel report. . .It was all around a great trip. Four of Kenneth's siblings were able to join us on the farm with his parents. We sure felt the absence of Karen, his sister, and her family. We also spent quite a bit of time at Kenneth's Sister's house near Syracuse. It was wonderful to be 'home'. Of anyplace I have lived, New York feels the most like home to me. Maybe because that's where my life really began (meeting and marrying Kenneth) or maybe because it's the only place we've owned a home, or maybe because in our married life we lived there the longest. Regardless, of the 2 countries and 8 states that I've lived in, it feels the most like home. We enjoyed experiencing Spring again; we got it once already in California and got to see the tail end of it in New York as well. Spring green is one of my favorite colors there is. I love to see the trees bursting with new leaves in that gorgeous color! Because I can't think of a better way to do it, I am going to just talk about the trip in bullet form:
  • The kids loved the airplane ride. They were all very excited and generally did very well. They gave us a little trouble at security. We left pretty early in the morning, which meant we had to wake them all up to drive the 45 minutes to the San Francisco Airport. So, they were a little crabby and did NOT like the idea of having to get out of the stroller, much less take off their sweatshirts, and shoes and be close to strangers. But we made it through. In an effort to save money, we decided not to check any baggage. So, we were quite a sight walking through the airport with 7 total bags, 3 children, and 1 stroller. We actually got it down and were pretty efficient at navigating the airports. We had the infant carrier with us as well, so we could strap Grant on and both the girls had a place to sit in the double stroller.
Watching a video during our layover in Chicago.

Sitting on all the bags- they made a great couch!
  • We all enjoyed the fresh air and open spaces of the farm. The kids loved seeing the cows, kittens, tractors and the farm dog, Sam. Arianna always wanted to know where he was and liked to just stand close to him checking him out. It was quite adorable. The kittens at the barn were a definite favorite. They could have spent all day with them! Kubota, tractor and 4-wheeler rides and walks up and down Larchar Road also made their favorite list.
View from the farm house. The poppies bloomed while we were there! The space is so lovely, especially after living in the DC area and the Bay area!

Same view with the cows grazing in that field.

Walks up and down Larchar Road

More walks- with Jenni and kids this time.

Grant and Daddy. Notice Grant's little boots- so cute!

How do you like these big boots!

Checking out the calves

Arianna loves Sam Dog. She mostly likes to keep a healthy distance, though.

The kids chasing after the kitten.

Playing with the kitten.

Taking turns holding another one on their laps.

Oh the joy a kitten can bring!


Uncle Scott giving the kids a Kubota ride. This is the best shot I got of a Kubota ride- sad!

Arianna and Grant having a tractor ride with Dad

Four-wheeler ride with Dad
  • Kenneth graduated!!! We had already received the Diploma in the mail, so I guess it was already official, but going to Cornell's campus to be a part of the actual ceremonies of graduation make it feel very real. Kenneth's family was able to come to Ithaca and be a part of the Commencement. Hooray for Kenneth!
The Man himself!

At the Systems Engineering Ceremony

Here are the Systems Engineering Masters Graduates. If you look closely you will notice Kenneth is 'special'. They gave him the wrong color hood. Everyone is orange and he is yellow! Luckily, we got it switched out after this ceremony and before the Commencement the next day. He would have really looked like he was in the wrong place!

Kenneth and Heidi- happy that it's over!

Here is the whole family. When Kenneth started his Masters degree Emma was about 1 year old!
  • Kenneth and I celebrated our 7th Wedding Anniversary during the trip. It is hard to believe it has already been so long! With all the family around, we took the chance to get away for one night alone. We had a great time together!
  • There was an exceptional amount of rain in New York during the time we were there, so unfortunately, the boys were not able to do as much haying as they would have liked, but they did get done what they could.
Mowing the field near the house.

This is the tedder. From my limited understanding, it crimps the hay to help it dry out a little. All you Larchar men can correct me if I am wrong =).

Here is Kenneth wrapping the hay bales with white plastic.
  • Great times playing with the cousins! Lydia and Emma were fast friends and had so much fun together.
Little buddies

The cousins all lined up watching Tangled. (Benjamin, Arianna, Grace, Lydia and Emma)
  • We enjoyed Story time at the Sherburne Library twice during our visit. Sherburne has the best children's librarian, who just make story time so much fun.
Drawing with chalk on the sidewalk- part of storytime. So cool!

Lydia, Grant, Benjamin and Grace- they posed like this all on their own on the steps of the Library.
  • For posterity's sake, I had to include this video of Arianna after the Commencement Ceremony. At this point in our vacation, the lack of sleep was catching up with Arianna, not to mention it was hot and miserable. Scott definitely earns the best uncle award for helping me with her! We were walking from the Stadium to meet Kenneth a couple of blocks away. I had Grant in the carrier and Arianna was inconsolable. Poor thing. Unfortunately, what you see in this video went on for about 20 minutes. At one point I was a little bit separated from Scott and Arianna in the crowd and I heard someone say, "Boy, that makes you want to have more kids, doesn't it!" Nice.


This is how she looked when we were finally in a quiet place (the bus taking us back to the parking lot):
  • We had 4 great BBQ's. Two chicken BBQ's on the farm and 2 at Diane and Joseph's home. They have the BEST backyard for family gatherings and everyone had a great time. We especially enjoyed seeing Pat and Phil and Lori and their family.
Pat, Phil and Lori and the rest of the clan at Diane's house for a lovely BBQ. Joseph took the picture, in case you are looking for him!

Grant playing in Diane's yard and loving it!

Here is Arianna nearing the end of that long day. Sucking her thumb holding on to her dress. Still tired.
  • We were glad to have the chance to see some good friends in the Utica Stake and also in the Liverpool ward. We sure miss you all!
  • On Memorial Day Jenni had the great idea to go to the Columbus Cemetary. We visited Grandma and Grandpa Larchar's grave and also did some rubbings on some old headstones that were hard to read. I was glad to have taken the time out to remember those gone before on that special day.
The Columbus Cemetary- you can see Jenni, Caleb, Lydia and Emma over in the distance.

Emma with her rubbing

My wedding ring belonged to L. May, Kenneth's Great-Grandmother. It was neat to visit the grave.

  • The day before we left New York the temperature rose to the 90's. 97 degrees if you took the humidity into account. Boy, were we ever glad to get back to California and weather in the 60's!Here they are zonked out on the plane ride home. We all had a great time! Sunday morning, our 4th morning home, Grant finally figured out we were back on Pacific Standard time and slept until after 6 again. Yeah! He was getting up at 5:30 every morning in New York. Up and ready to work when the sun got up! He's got a farm boy in him!

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Update on Kenneth's Health

Kenneth talked to the Oncologist a couple of days ago and he sent him to have an X-ray done of his chest. As it turns out, he has pneumonia. I actually felt great relief with this news; it means it can be treated with an antibiotic. Kenneth was a little worried by the news, and understandably so. He is just ready to be done with this whole experience, not have one more complication on top of it all. (Not to say he is not completely grateful for how smoothly it really has all gone considering)
Here we are now a couple of days after starting the antibiotic and Kenneth does feel a little better. He still has some pain, but not like it was before. Last week he said it hurt so badly to sneeze his body wouldn't allow it to happen. It would stop the sneeze before it could start!

In other news, we had a special visitor last night! Many of our friends in New York will recognize this guy:

Scott H. reading to the kids

The kids took right to him, as you can see, even letting him read the bedtime story! It was fun to share a meal and visit for a little while. I guess its one of the perks of living in such a busy place; we often get to see friends and family who travel here on business!

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Happy Fifth Birthday, Emma!

Wow! Five years old already!! Emma has had a great Birthday today! She chose all the food we ate all day: Baked oatmeal for Breakfast, Noodles with red sauce and cooked carrots for lunch, and Swedish meatballs and rolls and peas for dinner. We are having a little party for Emma on Saturday with some friends, so I hadn't planned on making a cake today, but Kenneth thought I should, so I whipped some up to have after lunch. I know what you all are going to say. . .didn't I learn my lesson last time?! But, before you think that know that I had at least made these before and knew we really liked them. I made cupcakes with avocado and cauliflower puree in the frosting. They were fantastic! (Unlike the cake I made for Arianna with the beet puree in it. At least she liked it!) Emma requested purple frosting. Someday I will learn how to not make it look so gray. Emma asked for a notebook and sunglasses for her Birthday, so that is what she got. She was delighted! Here are some pictures and a video of the day:

Opening her present this morning.

One very happy little girl!

Where did she get that pose?!

Enjoying her cupcake!

Here is her notebook. I took a regular notebook and designed a cover for it.

She has already written this much! I haven't talked to her about journaling, so I am not sure where she got the idea, but I think it is great! I taught her to write the date and she asks us how to spell all the words, but she came up with it all and wrote it herself. In case you can't read it I will quote it here:
"I have special sunglasses. They are not made to play with or they will break. And what I am writing in is my new notebook. I found it in my Birthday present. I went to Target yesterday and I went to the park. Am five years old. I went outside to check on my roly-poly but it was dead. I stay outside for a couple more minutes and we ate snack outside then I came inside. My mom has a notebook that is a cook book."

And here is her Birthday interview:

How old are you today?
5

What is your favorite animal?
a kitten

What is your favorite color?
purple

What is your favorite food?
Swedish meatballs

What is your favorite treat?
a jelly bean

What is your favorite book?
In the Piney Woods (we just read it for the first time last night)

What do you want to be when you grow up?
A mommy

Who loves you the most?
Jesus

What is your favorite time of the day?
Going to the Park

Who is your best friend?
Natalie

What is your favorite activity, or thing to do?
Read my brother books

What is your favorite song?
Scripture Power

If you could choose to go anywhere, where would you choose to go?
To that fun place with the dragons and you can play a little game, you shoot the ball and see if it will go in the little hole. (The miniature golf course close to our house)

What kind of cake did you choose for your Birthday?
A dragonfly one with raspberry flavor and blue frosting.

And finally, for your viewing pleasure, the video of singing Happy Birthday! We love you, Emma!

Sunday, May 1, 2011

They grow up way too fast!

Before I talk about the children, I will let you all know that Kenneth feels a little better today. He will still call the Doctor tomorrow and probably go in to be seen, so I'll let you know more when we know more!

These kids grow up way too fast! Grant attended Nursery at church for the first time today. He looked so old showing his coloring page to people in the hall after church! He is 20 months old exactly and we felt like it was time- chemo having ended almost 3 weeks ago now.

It was funny, tonight Grant noticed that Kenneth's hair is starting to come back. He had fun rubbing his hand over it and kept saying, "Hair." What a cute little guy!

Here is a random picture of Grant I hadn't yet included in a post, taken a couple of weeks ago. We were in the middle of breakfast when the garbage truck came on our street, so I whisked him up on the counter to watch out the window and while he was up there we decided to test out Dad's phone.

Arianna also went back to nursery. (She's been going to Sunbeams to stay out of the germy nursery) Boy is she ever happy to be back there! She's been very difficult in Primary lately. I am in there as the Music Leader and she is very difficult to deal with; she won't stay with her class, has to sit right next to me and come up with me when I lead a song (usually causing trouble while she is up there), and the last few weeks she is actually throwing herself on the floor and just being downright rediculous. I will say one thing for her, when she knows what she wants she will definitely put the pressure on until he gets it.
In good news about Arianna, she is learning to write her name! She wanted to earn a toy back (that was taken away because she won't clean up) and I off the cuff said that if she learned to write her name she could have it. I fully expected that it would take her a week or so to learn to do it. Up until this point I could barely get her to cross her A after I wrote the 2 slanted lines. She sat right down and with just a little coaching she did it!
I was so proud of her!!! She still has trouble doing it all on her own; she needs to look at it written and sometimes if I am not right there to coach her she will write it right to left, rather than vice-versa. A couple of days later, she wanted to earn back more confiscated toys and I challenged her to write her whole name. She did great!

Speaking of growing up fast, Emma will be five years old on Tuesday! How time flies! I can't believe she is getting so old. She is really becoming a wonderful little girl. A year ago she was at times painfully shy and would burst into tears in uncomfortable situations. Just today, she gave the scripture in Primary like a pro. The size of our ward and primary are major contributors to this, I believe. There are just a few children, and she knows and feels comfortable with all the teachers and leaders.

In other news, my sister, Sheri, and her husband came over for dinner today. They only had a couple of hours to spend with us, but it was so nice to see them! (My brother-in-law was in town on business)

Saturday, April 30, 2011

Easter and Kenneth update

Before I tell about Easter, I will give a small update on Kenneth. He has been having some pain in his chest the last few days. It is hurting to breathe and he regularly has some sharp pains that cause him to wince in pain. We aren't sure what is going on. Kenneth is hoping it is because he started to exercise a little more this past week and nothing more. He will go in to see the doctor on Monday and hopefully we will get to the bottom of this. On Thursday evening, Kenneth was trying to read stories to the kids, but had to stop because of the pain. Arianna said, "Dad, is the bug poking you in there?" What a sweetheart. We'll keep you all updated on what is going on. In good news: His hair is also starting to grow back!

We had a wonderful Easter this year! This is the first Easter that Grant really remembers. So, it was fun to see him get excited about the eggs. It didn't take him long to discover that he really likes what is inside! This Easter was also special because the girls are old enough that we can really talk about the true meaning of Easter. In the Friend magazine, there was an article with a paragraph and picture for each day in the week preceding Easter. So, every morning we talked about what the Savior was doing the week before His resurrection. The girls really enjoyed it. I also enjoyed Sunday itself. We had an amazing Sacrament Meeting program put on by our Ward Choir. In Primary I have the privilege of singing so many wonderful songs with the children about the Savior and about the Resurrection. I certainly am enjoying my calling! In the evening, a good friend invited us and a couple other families over for dinner. We had a wonderful meal and excellent company! A perfect ending to a lovely day.

The few days before Easter we had an Easter Egg hunt with our Playgroup Friends. We colored and dyed some eggs here at home and then had another hunt here at our home. The kids loved it all! Sunday, the girls finally got to wear their Easter dresses I bought a couple of months ago. They have been waiting for this day! Grant also wore a new suit; his first suit ever. I know I am biased, but I think he is the most adorable little boy I have ever seen! Enjoy the pictures!

The kids lined up waiting for the hunt. Notice Grant's 'hands-off stance' with Arianna next to him leaning in.

Grant starting out on the hunt with Dad. It was fun that he was able to come with us on Friday morning for the Playgroup hunt.

Finding the eggs.

The whole family.


"Open this please?"- The kids enjoying the spoils.

Sitting on Dad at lunch after the egg hunt.

Decorating eggs here at home.

The egg hunt in our backyard.

Trying to get into the 'Jackpot Egg". Grant doing his part to help.

Ready to go to Church in the new dresses!


The kiddos after Church

Heidi and Grant

The whole family (Yes, this is the best one we got. You all know how it is trying to get this many children looking and smiling at the same time!)

Handsome as can be!

All tuckered out after church. Let me tell you, so was I. She was a BEAR at church this day! Good thing she is so cute!