I really try to have a routine in place around here. We do pretty well most of the time through afternoon naps. Then it kind of falls apart in the afternoon and we get ourselves back together in the evening. Routine and order help me to be able to handle life with these 3 wee ones and I notice helps my children, as well. They seem to thrive on routine.
For example, Emma knows that Sunday is the day we go to Church and we don't watch regular DVDs, only Church ones. Monday is Family Home Evening; Tuesday, Thursday and Saturdays are the days we have baths; Fridays we have playgroup.
Every morning, after breakfast, I put Grant down for his morning nap and I straightway change into my workout clothes and do my Tae Bo video. Immediately after that I turn on the girls' one DVD for the day and hop into the shower before Grant wakes up again. Emma has begun to say the same thing to me every day before I get in the shower:
"Mom, if someone knocks on the door I will come get you. Is the door locked?"
"Yes" I answer. (It always is)
So, the other morning I got them set up with Sesame Street and Emma must have been so into it that she forgot to say her 'lines'. A minute or so after I started my shower I hear a scream of sorts coming from the family room. They usually do so well during this time, so I was surprised and before I could formulate thoughts as to what the matter could be, Emma runs into my bathroom and asks if the door was locked. She realized she had not kept with the routine and had to make it right! Of course, on her heels was sweet Arianna who has to repeat everything Emma says and came into the bathroom also to ask the same question.
Another funny things Emma does in relation to a routine is at bedtime. She first goes to the bathroom, then brushes her teeth, then gets her pajamas on. Then we read Book of Mormon stories, then another book, then pray, then snuggle, then it's into bed. If you try to change the order at all, she is quite upset. And the last words out of her mouth as you leave her room are, "When I'm done sleeping I want you to come get me". This is so strange because, we never come get her, she always comes into our room and gets US up. (She is my alarm clock) Now, of course, it's not just Emma who says this to us, Arianna joins right in. (At least for her it is appropriate- she is still in her crib and actually needs me to get her.)
Emma even says this to me when I leave the room during her afternoon resting time. She doesn't even nap!! What a silly girl!
Anyway, I think order is a great thing.
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